Living on house arrest continues to be a strange existence. I’m rolling along in my little hamster ball, watching the world I can’t get to as I pass it by. Every day that I’m able to leave the confines of my apartment, I think about freedom; not because I’m experiencing it, but because I’m observing it all around me. I’m not always sure of what exactly I would be doing with it, if I had it, but I think about the possibilities. I want now, more than ever, to know what I would truly most want to do with freedom. I’m realizing more and more that there is much good to be taken from this year on house arrest.
I often think about time, and how valuable it is. I think about all of the idle hours that I’ve logged in my life, doing nothing of note, and spending much of it thinking about what I’d really like to be doing. For waste! This awareness is a gift, and is capable of changing a person’s entire life, if and when it’s applied to life thereafter.
Being forced to have such a structured schedule, down to the minute, requires that I am constantly prioritizing. I decide what is needed from the grocery store for the next week; I decide how I am going to spend my time at home when I don’t have the option to leave it; I decide how to spend my precious three hours of freedom every week, and who to spend that time with.
At times, we can feel so helpless when we bend to demanding circumstances that seem to leave us with so few options. The truth is, though, that within every set of circumstances, however constraining, there are many options. The only thing that we can have full control over is our state of mind, and how we bring that into action.
I dedicated my earned leave this week to a trip to the ocean. I missed the old boy, and wanted to say hello. I can’t immerse my ankle bracelet in water, or risk damaging it in the sand, but damn it if I can’t stand on the Venice walkway and look out on the waves.
I drove to Venice with a girlfriend, and met another friend there whom I’ve known for almost 9 years. I met him in Italy during a backpacking trip after high school graduation, and we’ve remained close ever since. Thank God that I traveled in my younger days, before I could have ever imagined that I’d be stripped of my passport by the US government. I will get it back only after my probation is over, in 3 months short of 3 years from now.
I’ve been thinking a lot about what I want to do once I’m off of house arrest. Stay in LA? It’s the only home I’ve known in my adult life. I love it, though I’ll admit that I miss my home in Washington. Absence has made my heart ache for Seattle and my loved ones there.
I could go abroad? Nope- the government nipped that one in the bud- but, in a few years, when I get it back, it will be game on for international travel, with exception of some countries who don’t allow felons entrance.
I actually think that it might be time for me to do some traveling in the US after my ankle and I are free again. I’ll be in need of some exploration. It’s safe to say that the 580 sq. ft. of my apartment will have been thoroughly charted at the end of this. It may be time to leave.
It may turn out that I’m like Frodo, in Lord of the Rings, and after my mission is accomplished, I’ll simply be unfit for normal life again. That is to suggest that it was ever normal…
257 days to go.